Bil's fiance was in a car crash. Car written off. Sore neck and back. Nothing broken. Mil is demanding we send her money to send her flowers. If we don't she will demand to know why we don't.
I'm getting sick of the constant demands and reminders though. Like demanding we send thank you cards to people for baby gifts a few days after we got home from hospital after I had surgery after giving birth and we were barely getting sleep. I didn't get any get well texts never mind cards. Inlaws didn't even ask how I was when they visited. Mil even tries to pick out birthday gifts. Even tries to demand we send gifts to people who don't send them in return. Like my DH's aunt she tried to get my dh to buy her a 50 pounds makeup set when she doesn't even send my dh a card sometimes. And trying to get us to send flowers to a family friend who had been in hospital. It's getting expensive as birthday and Christmas gifts can't just be 5 pounds. They expect at least 20-30 pounds per person. Sil once huffed at some expensive 20 pound mascara because we didn't get her that plus the 40 pounds foundation she asked for.
Ops kinda went on a rant but I'm sick of inlaws demands. Was posting to ask do you send flowers to someone who had a car crash?
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KangarooAtTheZoo · 07/06/2020 11:48
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