I’m fucking livid

Swallowsareback · 2020-06-06 18:52:13

Long term lurker but have NC because know this will be massively outing but have to get it off my chest. I apologise it’s a long rant... My mother died not so long a go. My brother and sister are executors. My brother has shat on my sister from a great height by going behind her back and having her effectively ‘removed’ as an executor. It’s called ‘power in reserve’ and is perfectly legal but you must notify the party involved. My sister was apparently sent a letter from the solicitor, informing her of this but she never removed it. Now my brother is a narcissist and a misogynist , he’s extremely tricky character and has shown himself to be truly untrustworthy. He’s denying he knows anything about any of this even though he obviously signed the documents and instructed the solicitor to ready the paperwork. He lives (rent free) in my late mother’s house and somehow talked himself into a huge chunk of the inheritance while she was still alive. I Am guessing I will not see anything of my mother’s possessions again. I’m not really worried about the stuff but upset about the letters and photos and family history still in there. I feel so powerless and I am really angry he has fucked my sister over by getting her removed. My mother clearly wanted two executors, not one. I do not feel like he has any of our best interests at heart.He is conniving and unbalanced. He has a drug and alcohol problem and flies into rages and is impossible it to reason with. Getting him removed as an executor could be an option and it’s one I have thought about but it’s costly and frankly my mother’s estate is not worth much. AIBU to think about really messing up his plan and calling the police on him (drugs)? In my darkest moments I do toy with this option. I know it’s wrong....Or should I just let him get in with it and go NC? I feel like I never want to see him again. I really hate how upset I am and I’m angry that I can’t properly grieve over my mother because I’ve just been dealing with his obstructive shit. He is abusive to both my sister and I and is ripping the family apart.

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