I'm sat here feeling guilty and really mean for turning DH down tonight. He was being very sweet about it and basically said he wanted to have sex. I wasn't mean to him but just politely told him to go and get on with his big night he had planned downstairs as I wanted to watch some netflix (a lie).
He looked really hurt (or maybe shocked because I never turn him down)
Back story - we had words last night about him being obsessive about his hobby and he could never make time for me. Tonight he maybe did make time for me, but just for sex, he was planning on spending the evening alone afterwards.
I don't know whether I feel empowered that the tables have turned or just really, really mean
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Urgh...I feel so mean for saying no to DH :(
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Moaningmeanie · 04/06/2020 19:47
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