I know things are not right in my life at the moment but I can’t seem to get out of the rut. Before I launch into this moan list, it is just that, I’m very lucky. But I’m not happy and I think I need to do something soon.
- my job is very pressured and stressful, I like it and pays very well but often spills over into home life and is almost always on my mind, very hard to switch off from. It isn’t in an area which is my real passion (animals) but I get a lot out of it and enjoy the challenge...when it doesn’t become completely overwhelming which is often
- I don’t exercise enough then suffer physical and mental consequences, even though I know this I only do it sporadically then beat myself up the other 99% of the time
- I eat junk food like it’s going out of fashion and live from one sugar high and slump to the next, spend 99% of the time feeling fuzzy headed, tired, disgusting . Won’t cook proper food as can’t be bothered and just binge on junk.
- also don’t drink enough and always feel a bit dehydrated and sluggish
- I suffer from depression, meds not really helping, can’t stand being around people when it’s bad and it’s really affecting marriage, together with point 1.
- I’m almost always very irritated and angry and don’t enjoy anything or have any fun. I am a crap friend and wife and horribly inconsistent mother (too small to know too much yet thank goodness) - could never be SAHP
- im pretty much addicted to online shopping and don’t even know what I’ve ordered most of the time, it’s like a compulsion and boxes and boxes come every day and I can’t remember what they are
- I have a long long personal to do list including getting in touch with friends /sending cards etc which I never get round to (see point above) I feel like I neglect all personal relationships including my family
I basically feel like a car with a flat battery or stressed out. Nothing there, nothing in the tank, lights are on but no one home.
I think need a kicking and telling what to do to start sorting my life out as this can’t be it surely? I must be getting something very wrong 😞