I haven't had contact with my mum for five years now due to her being totally toxic with her abusive ways.
All my life she watched while her partners abused me both physically and sexually (although she didn't watch she knew the sexual abuse was going on). She was also emotionally abusive calling me stupid and never told me she loved me once but spent her entire time telling me I was a mistake. She took my abuser's side and went out of her way to make me feel as uncomfortable as she possibly could and later slept with said guy.
I am more happier without her in my life but most people have voiced their opinion about my choice to shut her out, saying she is not well and how I will live to regret it.
She has already been saying things to my Nanna and siblings about DD and it just makes me feel vindicated in my decision but today my sibling's dad brought her up (on a chat in Messenger) and when I said I was still not letting her be part of her life he went quiet and stopped typing.
I think this has made me have a bit of a wobble although I am fairly irritated and saddened that I still have to explain myself after all this time.
Am I being unreasonable to not her be part of mine and DD's life?
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phoenixwings · 02/06/2020 20:27
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