so I know I probably ABU here...
found out today I'm due a small inheritance from DGF, which was surprising. £11k so nice but not life changing
I could probably use the cash to pay off some credit card debt, which is at a stupidly high interest rate, then we (me, DH and DD) could probably have a nice holiday, most likely next year I guess
but things with DH haven't been great through lockdown...
we're both key workers, but while I've been wfh and trying to coax a v reluctant DD to do some homeschooling, and countless other household tasks, he's been going out to work as normal, and I've had no support from him. in fact he often makes my like worse, arguing and antagonising DD about schoolwork, then going out to work leaving me trying to do my crazy busy full time job with a hysterical child
I've told myself I won't make any rash decisions during lockdown, and will see what happens at the end of it - although who knows when that would be
so, given I have no savings of my own, if I were to leave the £11k would come in handy, and could really help me and DD...
so WIBU to open a bank account, put the money in it, and not tell him?
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AIBU?
to not tell DH about inheritance
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ClosedAuraOpenMind · 01/06/2020 22:11
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