I am just wondering if I am being unreasonable or if my husband (and teenage child) are?
A few weeks ago as part of my daughters school work she had to make an assault course. She decided to start it about two thirds of the way down the driveway up to the garage. We were out there, doing the assault course waiting for my husband to return from work. When he pulled up he looked puzzled, got out of his van and asked if we knew there was a man taking photos of us. I didn't so walked down and out of the drive to see. He was probably in his 80s and was walking away from the house, he must've turned after my husband pulled up and given I had to walk down and out the drive he must've left pretty quickly. Didn't really think anything more about it.
Today I'm out the back and my eldest calls me to the front. The elderly man has returned with laminated photos of us playing in the driveway. I think he's probably a lonely old man with no family and he liked seeing us playing together and thought he was doing a kind thing by bringing the photos round. My husband and teen think he is weird and it's not the kind of thing you do, apparently I'm naive.
So who (if any of us) are being unreasonable?
YABU - You need to see that sometimes people aren't who you think they are
YANBU - He sounds like a sweet old man and your husband and child are wrong in their assumptions
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KnackeredHag · 01/06/2020 20:18
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
270 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
21%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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