I’m really really struggling at the moment and looking for some perspective.
I’ve worked in HE (at the same University) for 10 years and went part time after the birth of DC 6 years ago. For background, my job is professional admin and my skills are sought after. I’m also educated to degree level.
The future of HE is looking rather bleak at the moment. When the UK locked down, about 10 percent of the Uni’s staff was put on furlough (me included) and I have been for on furlough now for 10 weeks. It wasn’t completely necessary to furlough my role as I could work from home however the University has used the scheme as a way to build up cash reserves. I realise I was an obvious choice because I was part time and have young DC. As the weeks have gone on I’ve struggled more and more with feelings of worthlessness, hurt and anxiety. I loved my job but I can now see that I wasn’t really a valued member of the team and more like a piece of furniture, which is easily disposed of.
The University has now started voluntary redundancy. I would get twice as much if I took it than if compulsory redundancies were introduced later on. I know in my heart that I need to apply for it but I am absolutely terrified that I won’t be able to find another job because of the current climate. DH has said the decision is mine but I know he is worried and not really keen on me taking it. My parents and in-laws definitely think I should take it. I realise it’s not looking good for me as time goes on as I’ve been furloughed - so already singled out.
My job is well paid but I have a commute of an hour and am always stressed about getting home in time for childcare. I’m looking at roles near home but the drop in income is significant.
Sorry I know this is long but I’m just looking for some perspective and completely impartial advice really.
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Help me with some perspective on this
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BastardCorona · 01/06/2020 19:11
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Am I being unreasonable?
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