I have a 5 year old with fairly complex SEN. The only member of staff in school who makes her feel safe is this TA. It was catastrophic over lockdown when the TA hasn't been in. She's been back in for the past 2 weeks and DD is back to being perfect there and whilst I'm glad not to be having my child lashing out so badly at school she is solely reliant on this one TA.
At home we have a visual which includes a picture of this TA. She has to know where it is at all times. She wakes in the night looking for it. She cant function in school without knowing where she is. On school nights she is so anxious about this TA being in she doesn't sleep until 5am-ish. She is terrified of this TA telling her off, not because the TA does it badly but because she can't handle it from this TA.
She can't function at school without her and now she's in a bubble with her for the next 7 weeks and I'm so worried we are making it worse.
Aibu to be worried or should I just be glad she feels safe at school?
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DD is too obsessed with TA?
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Tearingmyhairout0110 · 01/06/2020 15:51
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