This is very trivial, but DH and I disagree and want to hear others views!
DH and I have a group of friends we socialise with regularly. They are very hospitable and will often have us round to their house for BBQ's, meals, drinks etc. (Pre lockdown). They come to our house also but not as often because they prefer to host.
During lockdown we bought an inflatable hot tub and they've asked us about it a lot and have shown interest in getting their own.
Now the announcement has come out that we are allowed to get together in gardens with friends and families in small groups has come out they are asking if they can come to our house for a BBQ and try out the hot tub.
I'm comfortable to have people round as I'm at work anyway so have to mix anyway. But... I just feel a bit grossed out by having other people in our hot tub. I just keep thinking it's like having a bath with other people and our neighbors will think we're swingers 😂
DH thinks it's fine and wants to say yes and feels we would be rude to say no.
So...
Yabu- it's unfair not to let your friends in your hot tub
Yanbu- it's okay to not let your friends in your hot tub
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Please
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AIBU?
To not want people in our hot tub
198 replies
Lockdown12 · 30/05/2020 14:08
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Am I being unreasonable?
1955 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
17%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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