We live in a communal tenement with a shared garden. Our neighbours are lovely....but they’ve been making permanent changes to the garden without running it past several of us. It’s like mini land grabs. A raised vegetable plot, a brick BBQ, a massive trampoline, and we have overheard them talking about their next project....an outdoor room for the kids.
Am I being unreasonable to think this is a bit inconsiderate? I would never go ahead with something without asking everyone who has shared ownership.
How would you approach it without getting their backs up?
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To expect to be asked about making changes to a shared garden
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Chester1980 · 30/05/2020 12:24
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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