DH is struggling with work, currently on 4 days pay with 6 days + workload, with no light at the end of the tunnel. As a result very stressed. I'm still working full time (on full pay)
DH WFH and I have just gone back into the office Flexi (1 hr commute)
I've always carried more of the workload than DH because I've been at home while DH traveled with work. If he was away I didn't want our little time together to be absorbed by housework. I never wanted a cleaner, been through years of IVF and frankly all the extra cash we had went into that black hole.
However I'm now struggling. DH will cook but does the bare minimum around the house because 'he didn't know that needed doing' 'he's too busy' etc etc Washing will be left outside for days if it was up to him, he just wouldn't think to take it in. Dishes left on the side rather than empty the dishwasher. (It's quicker for us to do it together when I'm back from work)
I completely understand he's stressed and I don't want to burden him but I'm struggling with the workload. I'd love to wake up on a Saturday to a clean house. Not a to do list as long as my arm .......
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Isobored · 28/05/2020 21:53
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