- Getting drunk when you have a primary school child even if you know said child doesn't like you drinking.
2.When said child is an adult, hating the e.g. daughter's partner and trying to make daughter feel guilty,
- After daughter has been in relationship with partner for a while - saying to daughter "I'll emigrate - if daughter announces were to announce a pregnancy even though daughter is 25 and lives independently.
- When daughter lived at home as a young adult, making daughter cry over constant pressure because she hates daughters boyfriend and then in response to her daughter's tears says "I may as well go. I'm just upsetting everybody.
5.Mum, her husband (daughter's dad) and (now adult) daughter live in city. While they live in the same house - mum suddenly announces "I want to go back to the rural area (60 miles away) I come from. I want to be on my own," this is said not within any discernible context
- Kicks cat - family pet across kitchen floor
- Hits 4 yr old daughter across face repeatedly.
- Finds flimsy excuse to throw 17yr old daughter out of house in clothes she's stood up in (with nowhere to go) to 'teach her a lesson'
- Mum openly says she wanted daughter to be an only child as she didn't want any jealousy between siblings.
These events were not in chronological order, just to clarify.