I feel so lost. Lockdown has got me questioning everything, down to my sexuality and my relationship. I’ve been with my partner since university. I’m 31, and we were thinking of having babies in the next couple of years. I love him, and I feel like he’s a fundamental part of my life. But recently I’ve been thinking I might be gay, and I feel like we should break up now before having children together, even though I want to have children with him so badly. I’ve spoken to him and he’s confused, and thinks this might be my anxiety talking, but I’ve been thinking about this for a while really.
We own a house together. How do we break up? Literally, how? Do we have space first whilst I move into my parents for a month and we decide what to do? This couldn’t be until after lockdown anyway as my parents are vulnerable. Is 31 too old to start again? I want to have babies and he’s amazing. I feel so unhappy and I don’t know what to do.
How do you break up with someone you thought you would spend your life with? How do you break up with someone you love? I’m so unhappy 😞
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BellsOfStClement · 28/05/2020 18:39
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