I realise how trivial this sounds but it's really wound me up and I would like to know if AIBU for feeling annoyed at my husband.
Our dc is involved in a hobby and we have a WhatsApp group for all parents and the coaches.
A while ago I had a run in with E, she basically took a comment I made to be a personal attack on her, it was not and non of the other parents or coaches took offence. It was very minor, she made a rude comment in response and I pulled her up on it, end of issue.
This week she was conversing with my husband within the WhatsApp group and made a hugely derogatory comment that was about me, but without naming me. There was no one else it could be meant for.
My husband chose to ignore it and not say anything.
I have notifications turned off for the group so I have only just scrolled through the chat and seen that she has made the comment and asked my husband who said "oh, yeh I thought it best not to tell you about it".
I feel he should have said something to E, either on the group or privately, and he also should have told me.
Trying not to drip feed, but there have been other instances in the past where DH has not backed me or supported me for fear of upsetting virtual strangers/acquaintances.
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unsupported2020 · 28/05/2020 17:38
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