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Step child still seeing people on lock down.

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Cloudno987 Thu 28-May-20 16:27:06

I just want to know whether or not I'm being unfair or over reacting.
During lock down we gave had my step child stay over a lot as it's been fine for children to go inbetween parents houses. However, I have just found out his mother has been going to friends houses, having people round her house and not following lock down like I have.
I'm very annoyed as I had the option to stay at work or to take furlough but my partner said he wasn't happy about being put at risk so I chose furlough. I feel this is hypocrital as I have given up work yet we have his daughter round so much and she has been around people all the time. Now before anyone thinks I do not want her hear this is not the case, I'm just annoyed that I have had to give up work and my father is very ill so is in the vulnerable category and I can't see him and I would not want to put him at risk now, but i feel like my partners daughter being exposed to so many people is keeping me away from people I love for longer.
I have just had a massive argument with my partner about this and he says I'm overreacting. My blood is literally booking with anger at the moment as I like most people have given up so much. Am I overreacting because emotions are heightened during lock down or am I right to be angry?

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hellsbellsmelons Thu 28-May-20 16:31:17

When does your Furlough end?
I'd be annoyed as well OP.
But not sure what you can do about it now!?

LouiseTrees Thu 28-May-20 16:31:48

Tell him when your three weeks furlough is up you’ll be asking to go back to work.

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