Hi,
So my boyfriend and I have being living together for a few months now and will be having are one year anniversary in few weeks.
Don't get me wrong here, our relationship is great we have amazing chemistry, we hardly fight and if we do its just silly little annoying things that are nothing, however I find that he's just not making any effort anymore. Im always trying to be romantic, and he just says oh now we live together wants the point. Then I think if its like that already then whats the point?
But want really upsets me is Ive noticed he only wants to touch me and have sex when it suits him aka after a few beers.
Why does he only want me when he's pissed, it makes me feel like shit, at first I looked forward to Friday night getting drunk but now I feel like Im not enough for him. but then I don't understand because other aspects of relationship are great we love and respect each other very much. I feel like im going crazy and i just want attention all the time
I know sex isn't the bee all and end all but i love passion and feeling that connection through sex to me its more then just being physical its about the chemistry and a few months ago we had mind lowing chemistry.
But I don't even care about sex really i just want him to want me when he's not pissed is that too much to ask.
like if this is want a relationship is after only one year whats in going to be like in 5 years?
I just feel like since we've taken a big step to move in together we've lost out chemistry and our relationship has aged 10 years. does anyone have any advice to reassure me.
Ive truly never been so in love but i don't want to waste my time with someone who's going to give up after one year of being together.
Thanks X
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belladona24 · 25/05/2020 22:49
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