A handful of dates over a few months, less than normal because of lockdown. Good conversation I thought. Two kisses before lockdown happened. Chatting after the date via text. All seemed OK, then suddenly he's gone. Keeps going online and has changed his WhatsApp photo, but zero response to my message. Sent another message just to say hi and hope he's OK, then nothing. I think he's ghosted me. I'm not too emotionally attached to this guy, I like him and could see things going further, but he just seems to have disappeared out of my life. Why does it hurt so much? This is the third time I've been totally ghosted after a few dates. I'm totally normal, don't talk about exes, not clingy, have lots of interests, very open about the fact that I have a child and always make sure that's OK before the first date.
I'm starting to think it's something I'm doing.
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ShambalaHambala · 25/05/2020 22:14
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