My DD (16) is good friends with a girl, I will call her Amy. They've been friends for years and her parents have always been very overprotective and I guess I thought she must have some anxiety so have always followed the rules her mother gave me. For example only allowed to watch PG movies, not allowed to walk up the shop without an adult, not allowed to go around to another friends house just stay at mine (they have been friends since the start of senior school so it didn't seem strange in the begining) anyway Amy has never showed any desire for anything to change and my DD gets on well with her although have been at different schools since we moved a year ago.
Anyway since lockdown my son (12 but year 8) and her son (14 - year nine) have been playing fifa on the PS4, the son I call him Adam has been talking to mine and I am worried about him, he is only allowed to connect with my lad on the PS because my DD is friends with Amy, my lad didnt socialize with Adam before Lockdown but they enjoy playing Fifa together. Anyway despite being 14 Adam is not allowed to play Fortnite Pegi 12 or any remotely shooting game or connect with anyone else from school. He has a mobile but is only allowed the numbers of people his parents deem to be suitable, a group of my lads friends have been on zoom and watching movies together, they asked Adam to join but because the film was a 12 he wasn't allowed. Amy has never seemed worried about the restrictions but I've heard Adam on the voice chat and he is so low about not being able to connect with his friends.
My dh says it's just good parenting and boundaries, I think it's weird and controlling and stopping the children from growing up. I'm not sure what the point is in this post as not sure how I can do anything to change anything.
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Mydoglicksplates · 24/05/2020 08:45
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