My partner is a great dad and will do anything for us. But he has this thing of staying up late. Really late. Then the next day he is tired. He has a headache. Bla bla bla. Whenever I say about 10pm have an early night he says I'm not tired and will watch interviews on his phone of boxsets on Tele. He often falls asleep on the sofa. Usually my toddler comes through at about 1am and gets in our room. (Don't need opinions on this as they grow out of it) i have an older child too.
Every morning we come down to him still asleep on the sofa. On the rare night he sleeps upstairs his snoring is so loud my DD gets annoyed with him lol!!! So do I tbf but I try and sleep through it.
I have been on and off struggling with anemia for months now. Under the drs and being treated but it's been hard. I'm exhausted in the evenings. I often feel a little sick. I am trying to get rest so I can get the best out of the day.
Yesterday my partner was more tired than usual and needed an early night. So he took the kids up and I cleaned up downstairs. He ended up letting both kids sleep in our bed and was zonked. I decided to sit downstairs and have a cuppa. At 10.30 I tried to sleep on the sofa. But I didn't feel safe downstairs. So eventually got in my daughter's bed at 2am because she was in mine!!!!
Heard my son wake up and heard my partner chatting to him and open the baby gate. Then he told him to go downstairs. To my shock he didn't follow him. I heard my two year old shouting mummy. Then he came upstairs again and finally found me. I got up and said to my partner in a Maddy voice that's abit unfair sending him to me. He just laughed. I said to him well that's it now I'll be exhausted all day and brought my son down for breakfast. He's still in bed. (11 hours now) and I've had 5 hours.
Why the heck is it always a women's job!
P.s in ready to get torn to shreds but maybe someone may be nice lol
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
Partner staying in bed
61 replies
Akonknew · 24/05/2020 08:20
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
110 votes. Final results.
POLL
You are being unreasonable
11%
You are NOT being unreasonable
89%
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.