Aibu to not understand what they mean?
To me a conversation about being ok goes like this -
How are you? Are you ok?
Not great to be honest because bla bla bla happened/might happen
Oh no, how are you feeling about it? Can I do anything? Take care etc
But some people it seems to go -
How are you? Are you ok?
Not great to be honest because bla bla bla happened/might happen
Oh. That's not good. But are you ok though?
Well not really, struggling a lot just now. Going to try and have an early night.
Right but are you ok? I need to check you're ok. I'll phone tomorrow to check you are ok.
What do they mean? Some people do this to everyone. Absolutely not a risk of suicide type situation. I genuinely don't understand, do they want people to just say yes I'm ok. Just so they feel better and can say "Well Denise has had her car stolen and her foot is infected and her dog died but she is ok"
Saying "ok" doesn't change anything that happened. I am genuinely asking because a few people I know do it and it's starting to wind me up. But I am totally prepared to admit iabu if some "ok checkers" can explain to me what answer they want and why they want it?
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Why do some people seem to need you to confirm you are "ok"
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ButareyouOK · 22/05/2020 17:29
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