I know IABU but I’m so so fed up and just can’t cope anymore with my son’s behaviour during lockdown. It’s driving me insane! He’s a 6 foot 2 severely autistic 16 year old.
Imagine a 6 foot toddler, compete with temper tantrums except they are bigger and stronger than you. There is no help, no services, nothing. He turns 16, becomes an adult and suddenly it’s off you fuck.
It’s the sheer expense of it today that has really depressed me. Been making the most of lockdown and decided to do the garden. Make it a nice usable family space and after 3 weeks of back braking work and nearly £500 spent its finished. Looks amazing. Today is the first day the kids have been allowed to play in it as the work is complete.
The end of the day and my new sun lounger has been ripped right across the seat, he accidentally put his foot through it. Now unusable. The garden storage box is smashed, he fell onto it running races. Now unusable. The cherry tree I planted has been snapped across the truck, he tried to catch a bird and knocked it over.
I don’t know why I bother! Feel like it’s pointless trying to have a nice house or nice things as he ruins it faster than I can replace it. We’re living in a house with ripped sofas, wallpaper ripped off walls, holes in walls, bannister ripped off the stairs etc. and it’s just not fair on the other children living in this absolute shit tip but what do I do? The bannister was off the wall THE FIRST FUCKING DAY I moved into my brand new house.
Anyway this rant achieves nothing and there is no solution but sometimes you just need to rant and there’s no one else I can do this to in real life.
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Literally can’t cope anymore
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TastingTheRainbow · 20/05/2020 22:31
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