I come from a small village and there is a Facebook group which is mainly for the residents, although anyone can join in. Think of it as an information board, however a lot of people use it as a sounding board (a fair few arguments on there previously). People normally post pictures of the beach and mountains or information in regards to businesses and the shops here, things like that. Anyway - when lockdown started, two ladies who just so happen to live down the road decided to start the “community corner” which consists of boxes and boxes of donated food, sweet treats and toiletries. The purpose of it is so that when people are on their daily walk/exercise they can stop by and pick something up if they fancy. The kids also love it as sometimes cake and sweets are left there. It really is a lovely idea, however there seems to be a post on the Facebook group by these ladies every single day.
They are normally complaints about how someone has taken the hand sanitiser (left for people to sanitise items before taking them if they want to), taken too many slices of cake or dumped (donated) “rubbish”. The other day she specifically asked for book donations but then complained that too many had been donated, so imo people can’t win. Just this very morning, she has complained that someone has taken the hand sanitiser again, that people have no respect and are ruining this lovely activity for everyone. Whilst I agree it must be annoying having to constantly supply the same item over and over again, I can see why someone might have seen it and thought it was an item that had been donated and was up for grabs.
She has specifically said that she doesn’t want to do it anymore as it’s causing her a lot of stress. Of course people were quick to reply and stressed that she was doing a fantastic job (which I agree with) and that she shouldn’t give up just because of other people. She’s now said she’ll see how she feels later and make a decision then. Imo, nobody asked her to do this. It was a lovely idea to start with and has obviously brought a lot of happiness to the community, but if it’s causing someone so much stress surely the best thing to do would be to end it, right?. The very same ladies decided to (again, nobody asked them to) walk through the village yesterday and pick up all the discarded litter as our local litter picker isn’t currently working due to the pandemic. They’ve now complained that there are two black bin liners full of rubbish taking up the space in there black bin .
Imo, if people want to do something out of the goodness of their hearts then it should be just that and not for recognition, appreciation or attention. I do believe these ladies want appreciation and recognition for something that they started. The sensible thing for me to do would be to leave the group, but I enjoy looking at pictures that a local photographer posts occasionally. AIBU to find these ladies a tad bit annoying?
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Crazytimescrazypeople · 19/05/2020 16:40
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