I was wondering what people's general opinions are on this. I'm not married so this isn't about me!
It came up in a discussion with my best friend who was meant to get married this summer. She said if her DP ever kissed anyone else she wouldn't like to know. She knows she wouldn't end the relationship over it but it would cause too much hurt and anxiety. We didn't get to sexual affairs but I think she thinks differently there.
But it got me thinking... in which situation would you just not want to know?
For example, if my DP did something when drunk in a nightclub on a lads holiday I probably wouldn't want to know provided he regretted it and didn't ever want to do it again. Of course you can't ever really know the truth but sometimes I think it's best to just not know.
So then I started thinking what I would want to know. I realised that if my DP cheated (sex) one time (let's say a one night stand) provided he felt remorseful and wouldn't do it again, I'd probably not want to know.
What about you guys?
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soph1987 · 18/05/2020 14:39
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