My little bro is the baby of the family, but he is 22, and been at uni for 3 years, so perfectly capable of looking after himself.
Last time he came to visit me was 2 years ago when he had a bike race in the city I was living in.
He has met his niece precisely once when we all went to my GP's for a birthday thing. I have met his girlfriend of 3 years once on teh same day.
He has a car and lives 90 minutes drive away, and had no job while at uni and yet never once came to visit.
I speak to him on the phone every so often (normally while he is staying at my mums) and ask when he is going to come and stay so DD can get to know him and vv. and point out he has open invitation along with GF to come vist as I want to see him...
Anyway, to the point, the other night the conversation went like this....
'My gf wants to visit her mates in (town 10 miles from me) and we thought we could come and see you as well? Would that be okay?'
'When would this be dear brother?'
'Oh, the first week of October.'
'You mean the week I am due to give birth? Well, you can come for lunch or the afternoon but you can't stay overnight I'm afraid'
'Oh, we'll not bother then, we don't have anywhere else to stay, we were going to stay with you for a few days and then visit her mates in the daytime'
AIBU to think he is being a selfish cheeky arsewipe?
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AIBU?
To think my brother needs a swift kick up the jacksie
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Chirpygirl · 19/09/2007 15:24
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