She used to be my BF, is beautiful, a few years younger, has a very comfortable life as her husband is relatively successful and three beautiful daughters.
So I don't see any reason for her to say the things she does and I cut her a lot of slack because I know she had issues when we were younger and she found out her DF was not her biological father.
Some of the things she had said
-oh I can't let you go out in a floral skirt you look like a nana
-when I said I wanted a new kitchen 'well no ones kitchen is as bad as yours'
- I have a rather sticky out bottom and she said 'you actually like your bum don't you'
- when my DH and I went out for a meal I had just started at university and she did not allow me to talk about it. Never asked how it was going, changed topics and dominated the conversation all night.
She also fell out with me when I didn't take my DD to her DD birthday party and told me that I didn't treat my husband right.
I am at a loss what to think. Any ideas what is going on here?