I attended the naming ceremony of the newly born child to our extended family. This meant a drive from the south-east up to a village near Manchester during the storm in mid- February this year, (11 hours round trip in precarious weather). There, I happily gave a present consisting an ornamental gift, gift cards and a significant amount of money on behalf of our family, handing it to the new proud maternal grandmother. Only to find 2 weeks later that the new Mother reported to my Mother that no gift was given to her at all! -Implying she knew not of the gift.
My mother, who I have had a difficult relationship with for decades, immediately believed this, and my relationship with her, (my Mother), has further gone downhill.
Yesterday, 3 months later, the new Mother, has called me to state that the money and items have been found; -And they were indeed delivered by me. ( My mother and sister had been informed before the call to me.) Neither called me to notify me that the items had now been acknowledged as indeed given.
AIBU to expect an apology from my Mother and or sister for doubting my word, over and above a distant relative? -and a show of appreciation for my extraordinary effort under the circumstance.
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Unacknowledged gift, lost and then found with no apology; AIBU to expect one?
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Tigerzmum · 16/05/2020 09:16
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Am I being unreasonable?
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