Hi all,
I’m almost 41 and a mother of 1 ( a 5 yo)
It’s been just the 2 of us for years but I reconnected with an old friend of mine last year.
We first met 15 years ago. At the time he had a thing for me but I was not available so nothing happened.
He was very nice, calm, thoughtful and handsome
Fast forward last year, we reconnected, we were both single and started dating. Everything is fine and now we’re talking about moving in together
The thing is I’m a bit worried about our past.
During those 15 years I had two committed Relationships and every time the man walked out and got married within 2 years top. My child’s father let me pregnant
He on the other hand had two children, from two different women, then had another serious relationship that ended 6 months or so before we started dating
He told me things didn’t work out with mother number 1 because they were too young and both immature.
Mother number 2 wanted to pursue her dreams and took an opportunity to do just that. She went abroad, they tried to make it work but distance took its toll so they split
Last relationship is more complicated to decipher
But bottom line is : they were incompatible
Now I’m a bit scared about taking this to the next level because I wonder if we both are relationship material. Having all these failed RS is not normal, is it ?
Had it been just the 2 of us, I would have made the jump in a blink because I love him
But they are 3 pretty young children involved
Any thoughts ?
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Should I move in with him ?
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Vviane80 · 16/05/2020 03:16
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