So a couple of weeks ago I found out that my sons father had a friend in his house! I wasn't happy to say the least, when all this kicked off I asked my sons father to promise me that he would following social distancing and abide by the law, if he could promise me this I had no issues with him continuing with our normal visitation agreement (every other weekend), he has form for being a liar, but this time I had video evidence, so when I confronted him about it and he said NO, I told him I'd see a video that proved otherwise!
After me telling him that I was withdrawing his visits two weeks ago, he text today asking if he could see our son this weekend...I asked our son and he said that he would see him on Saturday and stop over one night, his father is a manipulative, gas lighting narcissist, but I felt under the circumstances I would come to a compromise, I almost wish I had said no, but because he was so selfish, my son has asthma so the fact he mixed with other people makes it even more horrendous...
I think the main reason I have allowed him access is because I really don't want to look like a vindictive ex, I personally don't care what he does in his own time it's none of my business, but when it could potentially affect my son then I do care..
I suppose my question is, how would you have dealt with it?
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Sadie00007 · 15/05/2020 15:29
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Am I being unreasonable?
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