Not a problem there is any point in voicing. But it's bothering me. I wonder if I'm being unreasonable though, and I think I'd like to be told that I am so I can just deal with it.
It's a coronavirus one. My sister spends a lot of time with our parents as she lives directly next door in a very small place, she has very young kids and so despite technically separate addresses they've always been sort of the same household anyway. She really needs their support. But the issue is our father, who is elderly and has almost every risk factor there is for covid. He's not a well man. My brother in law, sisters partners parents are shielding and he regularly travels into town and to their village to run errands for them (they stay in the house, and he does garden odd jobs etc, no contact) but this is multiple times a week.
What my problem is, is that he is affording them the privilege of being able to shield (they're not officially shielding, as in letters from govt, they're just not leaving house and living in isolation) while this is putting my dad at risk. Ideally he should be shielding himself and my sister should just deal with the kids on her own.
But it would be far easier and safer for her if Bil wasn't going round town several times a week.
I don't know. Maybe I shouldn't be bothered about this. I just worry about my dad. I think it's unfair of my Bil to prioritise his parents safety over mine, if it's safe enough for my Dad then it should be safe enough for his.
God, flame me, I'm ready.
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user8558 · 14/05/2020 22:50
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