DH extremely vulnerable to CV, 60, ex-smoker, has permanent lung damage from leigonnaries disease a few years ago, overweight, high blood pressure etc. I have no doubt if he gets CV he will become seriously ill with it.
He has been an absolute fucking idiot throughout the whole thing. Despite me pleading with him that I will do a weekly shopping trip and he should stay at home, he has insisted on going to the shop every day just as an excuse to go out. What can I do? I cannot physically stop him. He doesn’t care that he may be putting others at risk. He just says “Oh well I have hand sanitizer in my car!”.
Now our DD(17) is showing symptoms. Sore throat, breathlessness, chest sore when she coughs etc. We both think it’s COVID-19 and can only have been brought home by DH. DH before this all started was living in a rented flat during the week as we were having some marriage problems but since the lockdown has moved back in full time. He still has the flat which is sitting there empty. I have told him that I really think he should go to the flat to avoid exposure from DD but he is outright refusing and insisting DD just has a cold (even though her nose isn’t blocked at all).
He is a ticking time bomb and he doesn’t give a shit. WIBU to pack his bag next time he insists on going out and then send him packing to his flat for his own safety? But then my worry is if DD has COVID then DH surely must as well and I don’t want him on his own if he becomes seriously ill as he’s not the type who’d seek medical attention on his own. He is also a selfish git who I know will continue to go out if he wants to, no thought to anybody else. I don’t know what to do.
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To send DH packing for his own safety?
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ohidontgetit · 14/05/2020 21:49
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