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My abusive STBX has emailed today telling me that as 'travel restrictions have been lifted' he's coming to pick up our son for the weekend.
We went to mediation and agreed fortnightly contact with certain conditions (after he tried to convince our son not to return and then was abusive on the doorstep - the police had to be called) - one of those was that our son's half-brother was present at all contacts and was collected first. However, contact has been patchy even before corona virus as he hasn't supplied dates in advance or has had other things to do. In fairness, some of this has been due to (non-covid related) illness in his family. Our son hasn't seen his Dad since the 6th March.
So now he wants to collect two children from different households and have them for contact.
I'm all over the place - is this safe? The boys have been texting and his other son seems very doubtful, and I'm concerned (about so many things) that our son will be put in a position where he has to go with his Dad on his own - he's really not happy about this, his Dad has a history of mental issues and he doesn't want to be on his own with him.
He's also demanding my address which I don't want to give. He now lives somewhere that is a 3 hour car journey away - what if the travel restrictions are put back in place if the figures spike?
Please help.
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Demand for contact this weekend
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Startagain51 · 13/05/2020 16:14
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