DD is 3.5 and very into games, snakes and ladders, turn taking games and races.
Since lockdown I’ve been with her every waking minute and playing a variety of different games all day long.
I let her win id say about 98% of the time and sometimes she wins anyway through luck or skill.
When she loses, she goes bat shit crazy, screaming her head off, getting angry etc. I don’t know if I should be throwing in the the odd ‘her losing’ moment to teach her about the real world. Or whether to always let her win every time.
When she loses and goes mad, I sit with her and calmly explain that everyone’s loses and I understand that it feels disappointing/ frustrating and offer her cuddles and when she’s calm I encourage her to high five or say well done to the winner which she has managed a few times bless her.
Maybe it’s just the kind of lesson she’ll naturally learn at ore school and I needn’t create artificial scenarios and just work on making her the most confident she can be?
I just worry that if I do this she will be one of those sore loser kids who can’t enjoy things unless she wins every time.
I know she’s very young but I am worried in both cases.
AIBU to win sometimes?
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AIBU to not let my DD (3) win every time?
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blueglassandfreesias · 13/05/2020 15:54
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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You are NOT being unreasonable
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