OH is honestly the perfect man. We've been together since we were 16 through school, university, post-grad etc. We're now married and have one son together. He's everything I ever wanted (smart, funny, kind, handsome). He's supported me through really tough times and I've never had any doubt that he's the person I want to be with.
However, back in February, I went to the supermarket and left OH at home with our son. Whilst in the supermarket I got a message from him that said "you can come over now if you want". I didn't see the message until I got home so didn't respond or bring it up. The shop is only five minutes from the house so I would've been gone for well under an hour. Now in lockdown, OH went to drop some parcels off at the Post Office and then to pick some things up from the supermarket on his way home. He messaged and said "I'm outside Tesco. Fancy joining me?". I feel like that's a bit odd, especially in light of the old message.
On the other hand, I've never had any suspicions that he'd do anything with anyone else. In lockdown, he simply hasn't had the opportunity because we're at home 24/7. He's not secretive with his phone - it has a much better camera than mine so I'm constantly using it for photos and videos of our son or the dogs etc. I know all his social media and email passwords just because he's awful at responding to people so his sister (for example) will message to meet up and he'd simply forget to reply if I didn't check it. I feel a bit silly for even questioning it but I just think they're strange messages to receive otherwise? Maybe he was just joking and maybe he's not as funny as I thought?
Am I nuts?
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SonnyRobes · 13/05/2020 15:50
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Am I being unreasonable?
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