Posting here mainly for the traffic, need a hand to decide what to do.
Here's the story. 32w pregnant with vasa praevia. Vasa praevia is a condition due to which fetus's uncovered blood vessels (which are generally safely enclosed into the cord) are outside the cord and close or over the birth canal. No problem, until membrane break during labour. If they do, baby dies due to blood loss. For undiagnosed cases (the majority) the stillbirth rate is 60-90%. When diagnosed, the protocol is to admit the mother between 30-32 weeks and schedule a c-section between 34-36 weeks (this is to be close to theatre is case of premature labour and the early birth at 34-36 weeks is to balance risks of prematurity with risks of spontaneous labour).
I came to the hospital at 31w3d (4 days ago) because of some contractions and some period pain. They let me stay the night for monitoring. Thankfully, contractions seem to be only braxton hicks and period pains went away. They did some test to check how likely it is that I will go into labour in the next 2 weeks and it came out that the probability is very small (2%).
Since then, doctors keep asking me if I want to go home. I feel like they (and the midwives) think I'm being overly cautious and should really move on and free up the bed (not occupy it for the next 4 weeks). In the report yesterday the dr mentioned "we did all tests but she is not reassured enough and she has decided she will stay here until delivery". Today I have also been informed that midviwes are talking about my presence here and that if the bed is needed, dr might re-assess my stay.
I feel absolutely fine physically and the thing with this condition is that it is not a problem, until it is. So I seem healthy and good while other women here are struggling, and it feels like, according to the experts, I should just go home.
However, guidelines and my fear tell me that I should ignore everything and stay here. Worst case scenario they'll think I'm paranoid, but at least baby will be safe. However, 4 weeks of being pushed away feel very bad.
What do you think?
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Lalla525 · 12/05/2020 12:57
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Am I being unreasonable?
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