Hi all, posting for traffic.
Please help me - I am somewhat calm but also in shock and don't know what to do.
DP and I just bought a house together and we are engaged.
A year ago I found DP had been on a chat website and whilst upset, I thought I'd found his account and it wasn't sinister and the website is a place to be anonymous and just get things off your chest. We had relationship troubles so thinking that we could move past this and he would stop, we carried on.
Today I found the app being used on his phone. He was doing it through a sneaky way following a big argument.
He has admitted some of the truth - he has been speaking to girls, he has sent them pictures of himself, some he has told his real name some he hasn't. They don't know his surname, some are married, they sext etc.
I know this means that we should breakup, but I just feel so confused. We had a lot of problems so part of me understands using it as an escape but the lies when we were meant to move past it show he's selfish and a prick.
I want to find his account to know the real truth. He doesn't have a secret phone otherwise he'd have been using that surely? I've tried forgot password and it's not connected to any of his known email addresses or phone numbers.
I am going crazy.
I really need some support.
We have two dogs and a house, everything else is separate. We couldn't see the house with what is going on.
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found DP has been cheating
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inshocks · 11/05/2020 15:09
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
85 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
16%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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