We live abroad and Christmas is all planned. My mum is coming to us which makes more sense as she´s on her own and DH has a much bigger family here.
I explained that we will be spending 24th-26th at DH parents´ house and she said that was fine. I went ahead and booked the flights.
She has now told me she doesn´t want to come, feels awkward as she doesn´t speak Spanish (?) and so on. Says I should cancel the flights. Yes DH parents don´t speak English but DH does, as do his sisters. Obviously I do too! I said that I thought the main reason was to spend Christmas with her grandson, it´s his first too.
She´d rather we (me and DS) went to her for Christmas, sod DH´S family and DS other grandparents, aunties etc
Is it just me...??
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to expect my mum to make an effort despite not speaking the language...
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peterpie · 13/09/2007 19:43
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