DS (7.5) plays in a minis rugby team. It's a very sociable club, and the Dads and Mums get involved a lot.
Anyway, they are planning a 'tour' for the Under8s team in November - a weekend trip and an overnight stay in a town about 4 hours away. The kids get to play some games against the local U8 teams on the Sunday.
Both DH and DS were interested in going and I said fine, I would stay home with DD (4). But after hearing a few of the Dads talking about it I'm not so sure.
"It'll be great fun - once we pack the kids off to bed we'll hit the bar and have some fun..."
The accommodation is in a city hotel in twin rooms (Dad+ child per room), so the 'packing the kids off to bed presumably means leaving them alone in the room.
I talked to DH about it last night and told him I wouldn't be happy with that arrangement.I suggested the kids could all stay up a bit later (10.30pm?) and then go to bed with the grown ups. DH just got a bit huffy and said he 'didn't know what the arrangements were, and 'wouldn't be able to go against the grain' if that's what everyone else is doing'.
This morning he is all huffy, and being a martyr and just saying he won't go.
The thing is, although I trust DH on his own with DS, I know that we may have different parenting styles from some of the other (more vocal) members of the club, so DH obviously feels uncomfortable challenging their views.
But now I'm p*ssed off that he would rather not go than try to find an alternative solution.
I think I probably also have a fear of a bunch of hungover blokes being responsible for a group of young children...
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To not like DH's plans for a rugby tour with DS (7.5) ?
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quandry · 13/09/2007 09:53
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