OK, maybe IABU because MIL (who bought us an all-singing-and-dancing pram despite being told my Mum was going to get us one) has been staying this week and has been helpful because LO has been really colicky and it would have been tough had I been on my own. BUT the other day she said 'right, I'm going to the shops' and put my 7 week old baby in what she evidently views as HER pram and then left! He's never been away from me before, except with his dad. And he was crying when she got back (an hour later, I was almost in tears too by this point) and apparently had cried most of the time she was out. I'm not into leaving newborn babies to cry for any length of time so this upset me a lot.
Today I'm waiting for a workman to arrive so as soon as LO had finished his feed she said she was off out again and took him with her, knowing I couldn't come. I don't want bad feeling and she's very sensible and she's been a real help and she's also going home tomorrow [yay] so I won't say anything but I just needed a rant because if she'd just asked I'd have felt so much better. Hate that someone's strutting round with my baby as if he belongs to her, and I feel all possessive and maternal and stuff. I guess I just needed an unreasonable rant. Grrr.
She's just called to say she's bringing lunch back, god I'm such a bitch.
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AIBU?
To expect MIL to ASK me before taking my new baby out for a walk?
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ChubbyScotsBurd · 10/09/2007 12:29
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