I work part time, my dp full time (up to 50 hrs) before we moved in together he made endless comments after coming to my house that i was not the tidiest person he'd ever met, I said to him that is the way I am, I am just not organised and if he wants to be with me than he will have to take me warts and all.
I would like to point out that its not a dirty house, just piles of clean washing that need to be put away, shoes not on the show rack etc etc, piles of paperwork etc etc
he has come home from work today grumpy that the house is in a mess and he has had to tidy it up (i didn't ask him too) I didn't do any housework today as I was out visiting my mum and taking my son to the park.
When we row about it and I say you knew I was like this before you moved in, his reply is I hoped you would change!!!!
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In expecting my partner to accept the fact i am not tidy and not to keep having endless rows!!
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bouncy · 09/09/2007 17:46
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