Hi all, DD is 14 (August 2005) and has told me she has been dating a boy for a month now. She’s in Year 10, and this boy is 17 (September 2002), so Year 12.
So that’s a 2 year and 11 month age gap.
DD is very mature and educated for her age, and this boy is apparently very intelligent. She told me that they would never think of getting together, they were in the same friend group (ages 14-17) and it “happened”.
She’s told me they’ve only kissed and done nothing more. They don’t go to the same school either, she’s at an all girls and he’s at an all boys.
He’s going to be 18 in September when she’s 15. That’s a hell of a big gap. What will her dad say? That’s my concern. And her friends?
She’s told me she’s never been happier and nor has he, she wants to introduce him.
What should I tell her? I feel like he’s much too old for him.
AIBU to ask her to break up with him? :(
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bawesp · 28/02/2020 13:59
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Am I being unreasonable?
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You are being unreasonable
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28/02/2020 14:22
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