Next week we have a social services meeting and this morning they brought out their report. They had to ask my DDs nursery about how she's been since starting in January. Their comments were
"DD is described by her nursery teacher as bright. She knows her colours and numbers but struggles making eye contact with adults, listening to adults instructions. She also struggles with routines and not always able to focus on tasks at nursery. A SENCO was asked to observe DD in nursery as staff query if she has autistic traits."
DD has only just turned 2 and has only been at the nursery about 6 weeks. I ask every day if she's been okay and if there are any issues that day and they have never once raised any concerns about her to me. Let alone told me that they've asked a SENCO to observe her. If they have genuine concerns then okay, but she is still only a toddler and I think as her mother is should be informed about this! Am I being unreasonable being upset by this?
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Idontknowwhat2do · 20/02/2020 11:18
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Am I being unreasonable?
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