Boyfriend and I are both early 20's, been together 3 years and lived together for 2.
I've been diagnosed (after a long battle for a year of going back and forth to the GP for tests!) with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (ME). I've had the diagnosis for a year now and lately my health has been declining and I've really been struggling to get out of bed everyday before 5pm. If I get woken early or I try to get up early (as I've done many times) I will get very dizzy, have vertigo and be on the brink of collapse. My partner believes that part as he can see how white I go and that I need to lay down but he doesn't seem to believe that CFS is a chronic illness. He tells me to change my lifestyle and diet and that I just need a 'purpose' so I can snap out of it.
Fair enough regarding living a healthy lifestyle- I already do! I'm a slim size 8, pescatarian, drink loads of water and my blood-work always comes back incredibly positive and healthy.
It bothers me how he never has a sympathy. He seems to think I don't try or I don't want to get better. I've explained that I don't want to spend my life in bed exhausted unable to do anything but he doesn't think I try hard enough.
I can't work at the moment and claim benefits because of it and he hates that too. I do the majority of housework as he brings in most of the income even if I feel awful!
I've taken him to the GP with me and had the GP explain it to him but he doesn't trust doctors and thinks that you can heal your body with your mind and that doctors just want to keep us ill etc.
What can I do?
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My partner doesn't believe my illness is real.
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coffeeoclock · 20/01/2020 16:51
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