More of a wwyd but couldn't find the thread. I have decided to keep dd 9 off school tomorrow due to safety concerns that I have about another boy, in light of what she has said, only until a meeting and action has been taken but will break it down here.
There is a boy who has been infatuated with my dd since last year when she was in p4 and him p3, now p5 and p4. It has all been very cute and innocent where they have played together during breaks but his attentions have increased. He has asked her out innocently but she has refused or ignored as she isn't interested in boys. This previous week he wrote her a note asking to get married when they are older. Cute I thought but she wasn't ready to respond yet( a no). Forget to mention both my dd and this boy are sen which might clarify a little why I am worried. She told me in the middle of the week that he has been kissing her hand and pecking her on the head when in the playground, which she doesn't like so we wrote back on his love note no thanks and lets be friends.
Here is where it goes overboard in my book, he asked my dd if she wanted to learn about sex, when she said no he proceeded to play with a banana and pretend it was a child having sex with a pole(maybe imaginary person Who knows).
I just feel he isn't accepting that she just wants to be friends and he is too focused on her. Kissing her when she doesn't ask for it is invading her personal space and the sex thing is alarming to me. As I have no idea what his intentions were and where this is going. He is only just 8 and I am concerned why he even knows or wants to talk about it. He towers over my dd even though she is 10 this year.
The school consider my dd to be a vulnerable person so I am hoping that they will see my point of view. I don't want to send her in to school where he can access her without this first being dealt with. I can't expect them to keep them separated 100% but I feel they need to put something in place that will help protect my dd and deal with him in appropriate way. My dd is quite passive and people pleasing which we are working on but this isn't her problem to deal with at this point imo.
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FlorencesHunger · 19/01/2020 21:12
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