I want to start this by saying my husband is a good man. He’s loving, hard working and does a lot to make me and my daughter happy.
BUT he has zero common sense and is so critically unorganised that it’s becoming a huge problem.
He was fine looking after DD when she was tiny, but now that she’s 10 months old he seems to forget everything. It’s making it hard for me to trust him with her on his own. Today for example, I went to lunch with friends (having put DD down for a nap). I told DH to give her a bottle when she woke up. I text him her schedule and sent him a message saying give her a bottle when she wakes up. I came home to find that she hasn’t had milk all day. Luckily she’s a big girl so it’s not a huge deal, but it’s a symptom of a wider problem.
How do I get him to meet her needs? It’s so frustrating because he loves her, plays with her, baths her etc. but he’s completely incapable of remembering to feed her or put her down for a nap. He doesn’t seem to see it as important and TBH I’m about to snap with him.
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AIBU?
AIBU to be angry at my husband?
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AnnaSparks · 17/01/2020 13:39
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Am I being unreasonable?
132 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
15%
You are NOT being unreasonable
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