Please forgive me if this is long. I just need somewhere to write it down and hear some other views.
DH and I have one son, he is nearly 16 months. I did not handle a newborn well. He was not the portable baby everyone advertises. From about 6 weeks he wouldn't nap in the pram. I literally gave my life to his naps, walking round the park for hours, bouncing on yoga balls in the dark, driving round for hours on end. It nearly broke me. I also had some very poor medical support (e.g. HV telling me to leave him to cry, one consultant telling me he had onviosundigesthve issues the next telling me he didnt, I went to my GP saying I was worried about my mental health and she said 'I dont really know why you're here').
I'm finding it easier now he is a toddler - working 3 days a week helps a great deal - and I love the interaction he gives us.
Here's the rub. We always said we wanted 2. When I picture my life in 5, 10 years etc there are 2 children in it.
Am I being utterly ridiculous to just try for a 2nd baby now? Woild it literally drive me mad?
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To have a baby just to get it over with?
125 replies
NeverGotMyPuppy · 06/01/2020 21:00
OP posts:
Am I being unreasonable?
259 votes. Final results.
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You are being unreasonable
39%
You are NOT being unreasonable
61%
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