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To think Christmas dinner is actually a posh Sunday roast?

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wineoclockthanks Sat 14-Dec-19 17:07:58

I was chatting to a friend who was stressing hugely about her Christmas dinner (for 6 people). She was saying she would have to be up at 5am at the latest to start preparing and would need to be in the kitchen for at least 5 hours etc

I know everyone does things differently but I'm not quite sure what the heck she'll be doing in there.

How much time will you (or your other half) be spending in the kitchen?

cardibach Sat 14-Dec-19 17:10:02

Well, yes, essentially it’s a posh Sunday lunch. The poshness is what leads to it taking longer/being more complicated. A large turkey will need hours and hours too cook but you don’t have to be with it all the time. If she’s also doing something fancy for a starter, making alternative puddings and organising a cheese course then it will take a while.

Blueshadow Sat 14-Dec-19 17:12:18

I spend about three hours- but not all the time in there. And yes, it’s just roast with a few extra bits.

TheBigFatMermaid Sat 14-Dec-19 17:12:24

Well yes, but I do all the prep on boxing Day, this year with the help of 14 year old DD and 13 year old DD!

I cook a turkey crown, a joint of beef and ham in the slow cooker, in bags.

Iwantacookie Sat 14-Dec-19 17:13:37

Yanbu apart from doing pigs in blankets it is just a posh sunday dinner.
Only thing I'm cooking on the day is veg, mash and roast potatoes everything else can be done xmas eve.

AllergicToAMop Sat 14-Dec-19 17:13:47

for 6 people). She was saying she would have to be up at 5am at the latest to start preparing and would need to be in the kitchen for at least 5 hours etc

shock Fuck that. Some people just want to make their lives difficult...

Is she planning on eating at 10AM?

MyEnormousTurnip Sat 14-Dec-19 17:14:13

Well I do beef as we’re not keen on turkey and it takes the same amount of time as any other roast so YANBU. I might do a few extra bits but nothing worthy of hours and hours in the kitchen. Maybe a tray of pigs in blankets and some cauliflower cheese and/or cabbage.

managedmis Sat 14-Dec-19 17:14:36


Who's she feeding, Henry the 8th?

DrWAnker Sat 14-Dec-19 17:15:10

Usually make dessert the day before amd sometimes yule log.
Starter also mostly prepped, usually soup or prawns or smoked salmon.
Peel and prep all veg on Christmas eve.
Chuck whatever meat in the oven in the morning. Nothing strenuous or stressful, just a bit more faff than usual, but nice faff grin.

managedmis Sat 14-Dec-19 17:15:18

I cook a turkey crown, a joint of beef and ham in the slow cooker, in bags.


For one day?! What?

countrygirl99 Sat 14-Dec-19 17:15:25

That is why M&S desserts exist ( other nice desserts also available)

AllergicToAMop Sat 14-Dec-19 17:15:39

I have to say that I am starting to understand why are some people starting to hate Christmas... Their own doing though imho...fconfused

AllergicToAMop Sat 14-Dec-19 17:16:41

Try goose, people. Soooooo good! Unlike that fugly turkeygrin

Ponoka7 Sat 14-Dec-19 17:18:39

It depends if she's buying in prepared or making side dishes etc herself.

It isn't posh, but it has lots of extras.

I go to other people's to eat a dinner but me and my youngest DD are making our own chocolates and a yule log. My DD who is hosting is picking a cake for us to make. So Christmas Eve we'll be baking etc. Christmas day decorating. My youngest DD is a professional Chef. We're toying with the idea of making Profiteroles, as well.

Babamamananarama Sat 14-Dec-19 17:21:41

I honestly think that Xmas dinner has morphed into an opportunity for martyrdom for some people.

YANBU, it's a Sunday roast and needn't take much more time and effort. Except it's usually served with a side-helping of resentment and a gallon of stress, which nobody really wants on their plate.

If you don't want to spend hours and hours in the kitchen then simplify it or don't do it at all. Be in charge of your own life, don't moan on and on about something that nobody is forcing you to do.

Lulualla Sat 14-Dec-19 17:25:31

This is true. My mum makes the roast, but I make all the sides and puddings. Those are the fiddly time consuming parts and it does take ages!

Willow2017 Sat 14-Dec-19 17:26:38

Why on earth will she need to start at 5am?
No matter what she is cooking it won't take 8 hrs to cook (no matter how big a turkey if she is doing one 2.5 -3hrs max unless it's bloody huge! then rest it while everything else cooks!)
Just a Sunday roast chicken or pork joint with extras here. Prep veg Xmas eve job done. It's not worth stressing over.

BikeRunSki Sat 14-Dec-19 17:28:07

Well yes, but I do all the prep on Boxing Day

Nothing like being prepared, but does it really last that long ? grin

ToEarlyForDecorations Sat 14-Dec-19 17:28:09

Yeah, the only difference to a normal roast dinner on Christmas Day, I've realised, is the side dishes, i.e. sausages in bacon, bread sauce. Followed by sherry trifle. We have Christmas pudding on Boxing Day.

I love to watch the Christmas cooking channel. The high falutin' things people think they have to do to prepare a meal on Christmas Day blows my mind !

People can do what they want to do. Or not.

ilovesooty Sat 14-Dec-19 17:29:17

Self inflicted torture. Why do it?

Teachermaths Sat 14-Dec-19 17:29:48

Even large turkeys don't take more than 4 hours. If you're eating at 1, it needs to be in by 9, hardly crazy early.

You are right OP.

Yetanotherwinter Sat 14-Dec-19 17:30:13

It’s absolutely just a roast dinner with a few extras. I don’t think there’s anything to be stressed about unless you’re cooking for double figures. I don’t understand why anyone would need to start prepping at 5am. I think women put so much pressure on themselves for everything to be perfect.

ToEarlyForDecorations Sat 14-Dec-19 17:30:35

Just a Sunday roast chicken ……….. with extras here. Prep veg Xmas eve job done. It's not worth stressing over.


easyandy101 Sat 14-Dec-19 17:30:52

Always takes me ages cos we're all drunk by about 9am

MrsElijahMikaelson1 Sat 14-Dec-19 17:34:51

Maybe she has an early lunch? We always eat in the evening anyway🤷‍♀️
On another note, I’ve just managed to simmer a whole bottle of mulled wine away down to nothing😱😱😱

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