Pregnancy announcement

[Flamehairedboy]

Just found out this morning that I'm pregnant. Over the moon. I'm getting married in two weeks. Considering waiting until my wedding day to surprise my partner with the news. WWYD

[Likethebattle]

I wouldn’t keep secret like that from someone I was marrying 🤷🏻‍♀️

[crispysausagerolls]

I would not keep it a secret either.

[Sammi38]

No, I wouldn’t keep it a secret either.

[CmdrCressidaDuck]

Do you not think he's going to be hurt rather than overjoyed if he learns you sat on the news for weeks?

Planned "surprises" like that are highly overrated outside of social media. Honesty, intimacy and trust between you are worth a lot more.

[DoesntLeftoverTurkeySoupDragOn]

I wouldn't keep it a secret either.

[aveenos]

I would let him know too.

[WhatchaMean]

Definitely would tell him straightaway. Aside from anything else you don't know how you'll be feeling with morning sickness etc

[InDubiousBattle]

Tell him now. We did the pregnancy tests together, there's no way I would have waited a fortnight to tell him!!

[ThatsMySantaHisBeardIsSoFluffy]

I wouldn't wait two weeks. I found out two days before my wedding and was too excited to even keep it to myself for that long!

[PotteringAlong]

And if you (heaven forbid) miscarry next week, what will you do then?

Tell him. It’s not a secret to keep from the person you are marrying.

[ShinyRuby]

Definitely tell him ASAP & congratulations.

[Merename]

Congratulations! It’s up to you of course, but I’d tell my partner. You may start feeling awful in next two weeks, and if you want to keep it secret from other guests, you’ll probably need his help concealing why you are not drinking. It also is quite a public way to get the news - while I’m sure he’ll be delighted, it’s still a big huge deal that I think is best processed in private.

[QueenofmyPrinces]

I would wait!!!

I waited when I found out when I was pregnant so I could tell DH on Christmas Day.

[SallyLovesCheese]

I was so happy to be pregnant I ran downstairs immediately to tell him, waving the pregnancy test. I can't imagine trying to keep such amazing news quiet from him.

[carly2803]

no, tell him!!

[Parker231]

I would definitely tell him now - why wait? DH was there when I tested and was excited as I was.

[amusedbush]

Tell him! He deserves to share this and be excited with you.

Congratulations

[Dandelion1993]

Not for two weeks.

If it was only two days I'd say yes

[Betterbegoing]

I wouldn’t keep a secret that huge from my fiancé.

[Floopyandtired]

I would tell him too, but I had a friend who waited 3 days to tell her DH on his birthday and he was over the moon, said it was the best gift ever. But two weeks and a wedding day is a whole different kettle of fish!

[EmmiJay]

I'd tell him the morning of the wedding. Send a little card/gift from the baby. Gahhh! How exciting! Congratulations!

[misspiggy19]

I would tell him day after the wedding

[Jupiters]

Two weeks is too long to wait. Tell him now.

[bridgetreilly]

Is it something you have been trying for together or a surprise? If it's the surprise - however wonderful and exciting - I would definitely not wait for the wedding day. Because it's big and overwhelming news to process in the middle of a day that's already big and overwhelming in other ways. I know that I couldn't handle that kind of news well in that context, even if it was good news. If it's something you've been trying for and you know that even if it's a surprise it won't be a huge shock and it will definitely be a good one, then maybe. But honestly, even in those circumstances I think that's high risk. How will you feel if his reaction doesn't live up to your expectation? Do you want to take that risk on your wedding day?