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Iamnotagoddess Sat 14-Dec-19 00:12:50

So after Monday’s thread.

He’s turned up today with his kids. Their beds weren’t made and I haven’t had time to make them as have been at work all week and my own and my kids stuff on in the evenings.

I washed the kids bedding and got it out of the tumble dryer.

When they got here he was being an absolute arse so I asked them to grab the bedding from the clean washing pile and make their beds while I cooked their pizza (which he refused to do).

He has literally kicked off tonight about them having the same bedding as last weekend.

RagingBall Sat 14-Dec-19 00:18:06

What do you get out of this relationship?

justilou1 Sat 14-Dec-19 00:24:03

We’re he and the kids invited???

justilou1 Sat 14-Dec-19 00:24:14


Chloemol Sat 14-Dec-19 00:49:25

They are his kids, why isn’t he washing the bedding, making the beds, looking after them? Tbh I would now be leaving it all to him

1Morewineplease Sat 14-Dec-19 00:58:50

Sorry... your partner has just turned up with his kids ?
So you don’t live together?
If they don’t live with you then it’ll be hard for your partner to wash their bedding unless he strips the beds prior to leaving and take it all home with him then bring it back next time.
Maybe suggest he takes their bedding every week. But if they just turn up at weekends then the bedding won’t need washing every week.

What exactly is your AIBU ?

Andysbestadventure Sat 14-Dec-19 01:00:51

Tell him to get the fuck out. And never come back.

You're worth more and deserve better OP. You're not his skivvy. Nor theirs.

fuckingwhat Sat 14-Dec-19 01:41:45

Why did you let him in? Tell him to leave.

fuckingwhat Sat 14-Dec-19 01:47:08

Ok just looked at your other thread. He's your dh and obviously live together? Just LTB op honestly. It looks like from your previous threads this guy brings nothing to your life but difficulty and disrespect.

Tubbymummy44 Sat 14-Dec-19 01:53:28

Where is the original thread op? Yes, ltb. I did 3 years ago and its bloody brilliant!

MuffleKerfuffleUSnuffleWuffle Sat 14-Dec-19 02:02:40

Haven't got a clue who you're on about. I'll sit here and do some colouring.

Bluerussian Sat 14-Dec-19 02:22:15

That's very therapeutic, Muffle. Might try some myself.

Your husband is being very unreasonable not to say rude.

TheMaddHugger Sat 14-Dec-19 03:13:04

Link to last monday's post ? Please. my AS isint working

TheWernethWife Sat 14-Dec-19 09:28:06

OP had washed the bedding, had asked him to get it out of the clean washing pile and then make the beds. He kicked off about them having the same bedding as last week wtf.

GoldenFlaps Sat 14-Dec-19 09:35:13

You know you should, OP flowers. You will be so much better without him and his demands in your life.

AlwaysCheddar Sat 14-Dec-19 09:35:57

So his kids slept in bedding for a weekend and he’s demanding it gets washed again?! His ex wife is an ex fir a very good reason. Get yourself into that club.

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