I would appreciate opinions on whether I'm being over sensitive or not, as it's really been bugging me:
9 months ago I found a text on DH's phone to another woman. He admitted he'd been having an affair. Our marriage was over that night.
I was distraught. I messaged a friend who lives across the road to tell her what had happened and could I come round?
She sent me a text back saying yes, I could come round, but they were about to eat, so she'd let me know when it was convenient.
I was very hurt. If a friend sent me that text I would drop everything to be there for them. A therapist I saw a short while afterwards suggested she was being ' boundaried'and I needed to learn from her.
Was IBU to be hurt and feel let down by my friend?
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changeisasgoodas · 11/12/2019 20:42
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